Soliciting opinions and thoughts
I’ve been in a really crummy mood for a while now. I finally figured out what it is. So I am asking for your thoughts. To anyone who comes across this post.
1. Dogs - Our backdoor neighbors have two dogs. They are some sort of boxer breed. Their yard space is as much as our (not very much, I’d say 10 feet x 10 feet). The dogs are left out all day long with a bowl of dog food (?) and a bowl of water which gets kicked and thus leaves dogs with no water all day. The dogs poop alot (which might explain the huge fly problem we have every summer), so that by the end of the day the yard is filled with dog shit. A lot of dog shit. The owners appear to clean the poop once a day and they seem to be gone all day. The dogs are chained to the wall and their movement is limited. They look really mangy even though I think their pure bred. Their skin looks unhealthy (warty like). I can see their ribcage…which I don’t think is normal. I can see this yard from one of our spare rooms. I am being honest when I say, that I am not sure if this qualifies as animal abuse. Do I call SPCA?
2. Cats - My neighborhood is filled with stray cats. I’ve counted at least 10 separate ones. When it got really cold I took one in (and wound up with cat poop on my plants) against landlord’s wishes. So do I report all these cats in?
3. Neighbor’s kids - This is the hard one…and its a very grey area. We have neighbors that live on either side of us that are related. There are about 10 or so kids varying in age from 15 to infant. The ones that share a wall with us are constantly arguing and screaming at all hours of the day. I hear kids crying but didn’t think much of it for awhile. The neighbors are civil with us, but they have gotten into some scary fights with other neighbors (dunno if their threats were meaningless). Over the past few days I’ve seen two of the neighbor’s kids under 5 that were heavily bandaged. And it was upsetting. I don’t know if they were abused or they fell off the bed or a tree. I admit I’m jumping to horrid conclusions because I spoke to one toddler and asked her what happend to her mouth (I’m an idiot because she couldn’t respond because her upper lip and nose was taped with bandages), she keps saying "mom". She is about 3 or 4. The one mom (and her mom who lives with her) is a raving banshee and there has not been a single night in the time I’ve lived here when she has not spent her night screaming at someone in her house.
I will also admit that if the above does warrant me calling some sort of authority figure, I am afraid of getting involved legally. I am afraid of signing statements or testifying, because I am surrounded by crazies. There has been gunshots at night in front of my house a few months back and apparently the street one block away is somesort of drug den for coke dealers. And there are apparently ex-cons living all over my neighborhood. Yes. Ghetto.
Do I do something? Do I not do anything? If I should do something, how do I go about doing what I should do.
The one mom who is constantly hollering at her kids had another baby. I cannot describe how much this enrages me.






I am so sorry you have these problems. Actually sounds eerily familiar. Anyway, Child protection services should be anonymous. And humane services should be also. Call them-you have nada to lose. Next suggestion-MOVE!
Comment by Roger Nehring — April 10, 2008 @ 6:14 pm
I had a problem with noisy neighbors and with neighbors abusing their animals. The human society is anonymous and no one will know you reported them. As for the noise and gun shots there are two types of reports (or at least there are in Colorado) in one the police just give them a warning but maybe it will expose the child abuse but no written report is done and it’s anonymous. If you wanted to get them ticketed for disturbing the peace then you would have to do a written statement and I believe your name would be released.
Good luck, I know how much it sucks to be in that situation.
Comment by N. — April 10, 2008 @ 7:07 pm
I just called the SPCA and they assured me that my call was confidential yet took my name and number.
Comment by Beany — April 10, 2008 @ 7:50 pm
I’m glad you called the SPCA–it definitely sounds like animal neglect to me.
With the cats, I probably wouldn’t report it, because the most likely scenario is that they will be euthanized, especially since it sounds like they may be feral.
With CPS, I would want to be pretty darn sure, but you can stay anonymous.
I’m glad that you’re planning to move out of this situation! Way too much environmental stress.
Comment by Working Rachel — April 10, 2008 @ 9:04 pm
Oh, you poor thing. I’d be depressed too if I had to listen to yelling and crying all night long. I don’t have advice about who to call. Just commenting for a little moral support.
Beth
Comment by Beth aka Fake Plastic Fish — April 10, 2008 @ 9:27 pm
Sounds a little worse than my neighborhood. I have called the police (and Animal Control). When they ask for name, just tell them you wish to remain anonymous. You are not required to give your name and address. You can even tell them you’re concerned about retribution so that hopefully they will exercise some discretion when confronting the crazies.
Comment by Chile — April 11, 2008 @ 4:48 pm
Thanks everyone for your thoughts.
The child protection services here is DHS. I’ve had friends who work with DHS to place neglected kids in more stable situations, but its a gamble on how stable that situation would be. There have been reports on how crappy the organization’s efforts are in the media as well…So its a hard decision to make
Comment by Beany — April 12, 2008 @ 7:26 am