Well with both me and my husband having years of experience in a variety of fields that indicate our brilliance and flexibility, not to mention degrees in fields that are supposedly desperate for employees - we’re both still unemployable. Or at least, no one want to bother hiring people 3000 miles away. I feel like I should have just gotten a Literature degree like I wanted to, and I would have at least enjoyed my college experience.
So I’ve decided to turn this realization into something positive. One reason why we would eventually want to go back on the job market will be to pay off our student loans and save up to buy some land. I will continue to pay my student loan while on the cross country trip, since the monthly payment is a bit less than $80. I’ll start paying more than the minimum once I get a job on the W. Coast. Husband’s student loan will be on deferment for roughly 3-4 months. His next payment’s due date is sometime in 2010 because we’ve been paying two to three times more than the minimum during the past year which keeps pushing the due date forward.
Because we’re leaving in the Fall, we might run into rough weather somewhere in the middle, and I’ve been playing around with some ideas.
One idea was to hang out with friends in Colorado being the dirty, smelly, unemployed bums that we will be. Maybe we’ll get some temp jobs, but if the economy is heading south, who knows how the temp market will be. This will mean that we’ll just be burning through our savings.
Another idea was to head south into New Mexico or Arizona and work on a farm in exchange for room and board. This will give us some useful skills and knowledge and we can keep our savings intact. But are farms busy in the late fall/early winter in the South West? One farmer that I contacted said that there would be work to do, and he wants a 2 week minimum committment. But then what do we do during Christmas season when everything shuts down? Enjoy the desert scenary? Peak into Mexico and hope the border patrol ignores me? Continue to San Diego and then head north?
Some of the farms in the Northwest that need help all year round are located on islands. Which would be a bit of a problem since I can’t swim. I know I should have learned to swim all those times my husband dragged me to the public pool or the beach, but not only does water scare me, but I also find it icky - and the Atlantic isn’t exactly clean either. And I have issues with wearing a swimsuit.
Then of course is the Greyhound option. Some of my readers are getting a bit too excited about my trip and I need to manage these expectations. So please calm down and remember that I am really wimpy and a scaredy cat. We can all celebrate my accomplishment and get excited after I wind up on the Pacific coast in one piece.
Edit: Another option is house sits. Pick up dog doo and mail in exchange for a free room and/or board.






Even if you completely drop out at the last minute, what is so exciting to me about your trip is its possibility. What happens, eh? As a parent, I no longer have those options open to me. I guess some people do that kind of stuff with kids but I’m not that kind of parent. So the possibility that someone will be footloose and fancy free, going where adventure (or Greyhound) takes them? Beautiful.
Comment by Green Bean — July 31, 2008 @ 2:42 pm
You’ll do just fine! Besides, taking the trip via multiple routes (bike, bus, train, whatever) would just make the trip that much more interesting giving you different perspectives. Just remember to relax and have a blast
Comment by Heather @ SGF — July 31, 2008 @ 3:35 pm
oh wow GB. I am so touched. Here was I was kinda panicking, “crap! I better go now, people are expecting me to do this!”.
Relax Heather? Har har!
Well…I hope to relax once we’re actually on the road. My husband thinks he’ll be so blissed out that he wouldn’t care if he got run over by a car (I would!). This is just so new and different and somewhat unusual and lets not forget liberating. I feel like I am in love for the first time…the feeling of wanting to scream at the top of my lungs in pleasure because I am so excited.
Thank you for having such faith in me. And for the encouragement.
Comment by Beany — July 31, 2008 @ 5:18 pm
Ooohh, Beany!! You’re going to be way better than just fine. IT will be fantastic. And YOU will be fantastic.
I think it’s best to have anxiety about it now. It’s always good to question yourself and your motives, to think through all the potentials the best you can. It’s all that dark, secret, unaddressed baggage that leads people down questionable paths, makes them make bad choices. It’s not having a Plan B that gets a country stuck in Iraq for 100 years.
So if I were taking this trip, here’s what I’d have to keep telling myself: Be flexible. Be patient with myself, others and situations that I cannot control. And remember to acknowledge when I’m relaxed and having fun.
Comment by natalie — July 31, 2008 @ 5:58 pm
Aw thanks Natalie.
I did my panicking over wild animals so I think I’m over wolves, bears, snakes, spiders, mountain goats, coyotes, and even serial killers with a fondness for killing people in sleeping bags.
Now I’m working my way through my fears of car drivers, hicks, thieves and crappy, processed food.
Anything else I should worry about? Please leave a comment, and I can spend an appropriate amount of time panicking over it.
I have plans A through E. So I should be good….I hope.
One huge benefit of this trip will be that I finally will get to learn U.S. geography. Planning our trip has been filled with statements like “oooo so that’s where Gettysburg is”, and “who knew Vincennes was located there…”.
Comment by Beany — August 1, 2008 @ 12:11 am