Taking Ruchi’s lists…and making it my own.
Things I have done
1. Got a mailing address
2. Given notice at my job
3. Sold some furniture/yarn/bicycle/misc items
4. Updated all businesses with new address or closed accounts
5. Given away some clothes. Packed away the rest for donation. Put up free ads. The compost bin has gotten the most interest.
6. Made arrangements to donate remaining furniture (thanks to Heather for suggesting it), computers and other electronic gizmos. For minimalists we certainly have a lot of crap.
7. Made plans for friend to drive me to goodwill to drop of other stuff.
8. Swapped (using paperbackswap.com and swapacd.com) all our media and books.
9. Made a list of stuff I need a friend to store for me and then ship to me when I reach my destination.
Things I have not done
1. Planned out our entire route. I have bits and pieces of every state. Looking at traffic maps, bicycle maps, reading about the weather (for example dust storms in Kansas) takes alot of time.
2. Told my co-workers that I’m leaving.
Things I am doing
1. Keeping up with my blog reading (I’m only a week behind now, compared to being a month behind like I was the past couple of months).
2. Planning our itinerary.
3. Sleeping for 8 hours every night.
Things I am not doing
1. Cleaning our place up. Its an incredible mess and everything is just falling by the wayside. I cleaned the bathroom last weekend and felt like I had actually accomplished something. Our living room currently looks like a disaster zone. Every evening we come home dog tired to do anything (quitting coffee has only made us more tired). We’re working until the day before we leave because we need the money. I want to have paid for everything before we leave so we can rely on our savings during our trip.
Things that have fallen by the wayside
1. Going to the Farmers’ Market. We’ve had stuff from our last trip to last us awhile, but we been really busy with other random stuff to get together to go to the market. Also we’ve been eating our bulk stuff (organic and not local).
2. Eating home cooked meals all the time. I’ve been eating out alot.
Things that have not fallen by the wayside
1. My calm and collected mind. For some strange reason I am not panicking about anything. I’ve managed to gain this previously elusive quality called "faith". I somehow have faith that things are just going to work out. This could also be the early stages of delusion, but I’m trying to be positive for now.
Things that suck
1. My commute. I hated it before I started the job and I still hate it.
2. Not having any offers, despite having the interviews that went well. I honestly believed I would be incredibly employable with a degree, which was why I went back to school. Boy do I regret going to college.
Things that get me through the day
1. Frequent chats with my husband.
2. Reading comic strips






Oh my god! I also am working the day before I leave for the money!!
Comment by arduous — August 20, 2008 @ 12:47 pm
I thought the salad thing was a fluke…but now I know better, all brown people are alike.
Comment by Beany — August 20, 2008 @ 12:55 pm
Ahahahahaha! Don’t leave me! Pleeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeease!
Comment by arduous — August 20, 2008 @ 1:48 pm
Sounds like, despite it being a bit stressful, things are falling into place for your big trip/move. It’s okay that some of these things fall by the wayside though - there are only so many hours in a day, and well, certain things like your sanity have to take precedence.
I hear you on the college degree. I graduated and it took me well over 6 months to find something (I too am a bean counter, not exactly what I thought I would do with a degree in psychology, but the APA disgusts me so we’ll leave that one alone). I’ll keep my fingers crossed that something decent will come along for you soon.
Hang in there, you’ll be blissfully biking (hopefully not through any dust storms in Kansas) before you know it!
Comment by Jennifer — August 20, 2008 @ 1:56 pm
arduous: I think you’re the one who is really leaving. I’m still going to be lounging around in this country. I mean London? I should be the one wailing away. So waah
Jennifer: I am being inundated with craigslist users’ emails today as I posted many free stuff posts. Don’t these people have jobs? Where they do things besides surfing the innernets?
Thanks for the positive thoughts.
Comment by Beany — August 20, 2008 @ 2:02 pm
Yes, but I will still be here on them innernets. YOU on the other hand will be all biking all the time!
Comment by arduous — August 20, 2008 @ 2:26 pm
“I somehow have faith that things are just going to work out. This could also be the early stages of delusion, but I’m trying to be positive for now.” - Ha! I love it. Even if faith *is* the early stages of delusion, it works doesn’t it?
And I think not having a job lined up on the West Coast is going to turn out to be a good thing. Let’s say you did have one. Then your trip would have specific starting and ending points/dates already predetermined. Your journey would just be the trip between start and finish. Without that concrete end, really your journey is everything that happens after you leave your apartment on X date.
Logistically having a job lined up seems easier. But maybe not. What if you two decide to get sidetracked for a few weeks or months or … Why stress about getting somewhere at a certain time if you don’t have to!
Comment by natalie — August 21, 2008 @ 4:05 pm
That’s a really good point. I am just not the sort of person who deals well with open ended anything. Start/end points helps me with my compulsive planning. Its probably my more annoying habit that everything has to be pre-planned. No room for spontaneity here. I really need to learn how to let my hair down and I’m hoping my foray into obvious hippiedom (as opposed to stealth hippiedom that I practice now) will change this habit of mine.
For me not having money coming in is a huge source of stress. So I am not really concerned that I don’t have a job as much as I don’t have any sort of cash coming in once I/we stop working. Neither of us are aware of any inheritance piles that could be ours tomorrow. And money is just something I constantly worry about.
Comment by Beany — August 21, 2008 @ 4:25 pm